As cliche as it may sound, “Different strokes for different folks” goes a long way, even when it comes to women, men have different taste and what makes you the one for one guy can be a total turn off for another. There are those common characteristics that men all favor and trust me cooking,cleaning and bending over don’t cover it (still reviewing bending over though).
So OTR went out searching for answers that will bring you a step closer to being someone’s ‘ideal’ or just an ‘ideal’ . None of these answers guarantee you ‘prince charming’ after reading and applying but nothing fixes the problem more than knowing what it is and getting it out of the way.
OTR found you all kinds of gentlemen dapper ones, swaggy ones, lawyers, media specialists, presenters, everything and anything you need to ‘fix it’ and get a man but, most importantly to BE the woman that won’t make him cringe at the thought of taking you home.
Question: What characteristics must your ideal (wife material) woman have? (What makes you go “yeah, that’s the one”?
For Davi trustworthiness and ubuntu (humanity) speak volumes.
For Lidon honesty is the most important quality in a woman, and then follows loyalty, trustworthiness, elegance, a good heart,class, intelligence, great thinking abilities and most importantly a woman who acknowledges that she can’t always be right.
MD needs nothing more than a woman he can trust and a lady that loves him.
Michael puts emphasis on confidence and wants his ideal to be attractive, intelligent and be as feminine as they come. He also wants a lady that can make her mind up and be “semi – independent” enough to get her own. Loyalty is also an important quality and maturity seals the deal.
Mpho loves him some cocos (melanin queens) who are easy-going, confident, grounded, principled, family-oriented, well-mannered and educated.
And that rounds it off!!! These answers are meant to guide you in the right path and they are not in any way a guarantee of cattle in your momma’s backyard. Read, Be better and find love. Don’t try and force these characteristics on a man that doesn’t value you, invest yourself where you’re put on the highest of pedestal.
Until next time…
Stay Real ❤
*A special thanks to Lidon, MD, Mpho, Michael and Davi for their participation in the construction of this article and providing me with their handsome pictures and informative answers. *thankful*