I have a crush on a boy from campus and he is everything I need in a man. He is buff, tall and his complexion is a perfect fit and we have a connection like nobody but the problem is in the beginning of this year during orientation week he and my friend did the thing. It was only at the party we went to and after that he ignored her and even though she was sad, a part of me was so happy that he is still on the market to be snatched and grabbed. Everytime I see him I want to climb him like Mountain Everest and just have him do everything she explained that he did well but I don’t want to hurt her because we are two minute besties. If it comes down to choosing I will not choose a girl from far away who I just met above my own happiness. I know it sounds selfish but what’s a girl to do?
First things first: YOU DO NOT HAVE A CONNECTION. If a place with many rocks is called rocky, then he is in a place with many horns. After reading your mail I cannot help but feel sorry for you. You and your friend both got mixed up with a Guy who A) Does not respect you B) Has no care for anyone’s feelings and C) Will hurt you, because right now you’re just another name on the to-do list. These University men look all kinds of possible delicious and the things that come out of their mouth are practiced poetry. What you need to do with your life as soon as possible is to FOCUS…these men don’t love you baby girl…they act like they do…but no hey. You came to school to study and get your life in order and make lifetime friends, which you’re already betraying (but that was never the point) , and to learn what true responsibility is. Get rid of that boy because he’s very sideways and he will do to you what he did to her. If you continue on this path of yours, you’re not the winner, you’re just easy. Be young, enjoy first year, have drinks, indulge in exam stress and all those university stuff. Your man will come, the train you’ll get on will not have passed through many tunnels to get to the one that was built for him. THAT’S THE WRONG TRAIN!!! Even after passing through your tunnel, he’ll still want to pass through a million more, It will never be a clear journey. Tunnels collapse…do you wanna die? If not…change.
Stay Real ♡
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