I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl a few months ago and I am happy to be a mother. My then boyfriend promised to look after me and my child so we could have a future but he moved on with a new girl. I am doing my final year at varsity and I plan to become a good mother for my child and forget this man but what annoys me is his new gf posting pictures of my child saying it’s her cute baby girl. When did she give birth? I made a solution for him to come see the child at my house and not take her away but every time I come back to school he fetches my child and let’s his gf fetch her sometimes. That is my baby and she will stay my baby. I don’t know if I’m jealous or what but I don’t want that woman around my child. She is only 4 months old and already she is taking pictures of my baby saying they are her family. I want it to stop before I do and say something I will regret. I’m thinking of stopping him from coming to fetch my child forever because I am disrespected. This is my child and I don’t care about him or his relationship, I just want to be respected as the mother.
Any/Every situation concerning an innocent child and two feuding parents is always difficult. Yes the baby is yours and nothing in this world could ever change that but, understand that it’s the same for him too. It’s a pity that he walked away from what you two had but, that does not mean he walked away from his child by walking away from you. You have every right to set boundaries when it comes to your child. If you don’t want your child on social media with this woman then be clear with him and tell him that you don’t want all of that around your child. If he later decides to marry this girl then you have to gradually accept that she is part of your child’s life but for now, she is just a stranger who has no business even touching your baby and your former baby-daddy needs to help her find her lane so that she can stay in it. Tell your parents and his (if needs be) that this woman has no business being around your child and if you have a new man too, let him know his place concerning the baby. Don’t use your baby as ammunition against your ex’s new relationship but, don’t be quiet with your concerns in the name of not wanting to be seen as “the jealous crazy ex”. Talk it through as adults and find a way around this whole situation. Good luck 😘